ADAPTING TO CHANGE
Change is a part of life:
Earthquakes and Tsunamis occur as the earth evolves and the Teutonic Plates shift. Huge disruption occurs and over time a new normal is established.
In our lives, times of life stage change, may feel as if they have the same impact. Issues that have been buried and ignored suddenly come to the fore, demanding our attention.
You may enter counselling believing you can never change. Perhaps you believe your upbringing has made your personality un-shiftable. You may believe the same of your partner. You may have failed to make changes in the past, and believe your destiny is set.
The counselling process is all about change. It is possible to shift opinions. It is possible to behave differently. Once a couple begins to believe things can change, the battle to rebuild their relationship is largely won.
It is the difference between he never has and he never will, to he can and he does.
